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Finding Calm in the Chaos:Taking time for yourself this Christmas


As the holiday season approaches, I always feel a mix of emotions. There’s so much beauty in this time of year—twinkling lights, festive gatherings, the joy of giving, and reconnecting with loved ones. But let’s be honest: it can also be a whirlwind of busyness, expectations, and stress.


For many, Christmas is a time of joy and celebration. But for others, it can be a tough season—full of reminders of loss, loneliness, or just the overwhelming pressure to make everything perfect. And if you’re anything like me, it’s easy to get caught up in the chaos and forget to take a moment to breathe.


This year, I’ve made a promise to myself: amidst the gift shopping, party planning, and endless to-do lists, I’m carving out time for me. Because let’s face it, you can’t pour from an empty cup.


Here are a few simple tools I’ve been using to stay grounded and present during this busy season:


1. Breathwork for Calm and Focus


Even five minutes of intentional breathing can make a world of difference. Try this: inhale for four counts, hold for four counts, exhale for six counts. Repeat this a few times, and notice how your body begins to relax. It’s a small act, but it’s powerful.


2. Set Boundaries


Say no to the things that drain you and yes to what truly fills you up. You don’t have to attend every party or commit to every event. It’s okay to step back and protect your energy.


3. Get Outside


Nature has a way of putting things into perspective. Even a short walk can help you clear your mind and reconnect with what really matters.


4. Create a Self-Care Ritual


Light a candle, take a warm bath, or spend a few minutes journaling. These little moments of stillness can be your sanctuary amidst the busyness.


5. Gratitude Practice


Each morning, I jot down three things I’m grateful for. It shifts my mindset and helps me focus on the beauty of the season, even during challenging moments.


6. Be Present with Loved Ones


When you’re with family or friends, really be with them. Put the phone down, listen deeply, and soak in those moments of connection.


This season, give yourself the gift of balance. It’s okay to feel all the emotions—joy, stress, excitement, or even sadness. What matters is how you care for yourself through it all.


So, take a breath. Slow down. Remember, the best gift you can give yourself—and others—is your presence and peace of mind.


Here’s to a Christmas season that feels a little calmer, a little brighter, and a lot more meaningful.


Warm wishes,

Tan

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